Jan 25 2010

Praying for Our City

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Our church, Cumberland Community Church, is focusing on prayer. Our pastor will be teaching about prayer every week in 2010. I’m excited about a year long teaching on prayer as it is one of the ways I feel closest to God.

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Yesterday, we studied Abraham’s conversation with God in Genesis 18 concerning the city of Sodom. Abraham was bold in his petition to save Sodom from God’s wrath because his nephew Lot lived there. He had a reason to care about this city. He was willing to “stand in the gap” on behalf of Sodom (see Ezekiel 22:30).

The sermon focused us in to the need to pray for our city. It occurred to me during our praise band’s playing of Chris Tomlin’s God of This City, I have complained about my city’s middle school for years as it has many academic and cultural struggles. Never once has it occurred to me to pray about it, asking God to work in the lives of the students and families and teachers. I could have been praying for God to increase the academic skills and decrease the cultural struggles of the students that attend there. I must admit I’m ashamed at this revelation as I’m a former teacher. I worked in schools that experienced academic and cultural struggles.

I’ve been convicted to pray instead of complain.

Our mayor, our fire chief, our parks and recreation director, an assistant prinicipal and many teachers attended the service yesterday. We, as a congregation, prayed over these servants of our community. Many of our congregation committed to ongoing prayer for our city, the servants in our city,our schools, and our church’s outreach to our community. I can’t wait to see what God will do!


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Jan 18 2010

The Tragedy in Haiti

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The news continues to broadcast pictures and stories of those impacted by the earthquake in Haiti. The pictures are difficult to view. Seeing the pain in their faces is truly hard for me. I am so thankful for the emergency workers and the military personnel who are providing aid and relief to the people of Haiti. Their needs are so great. The devastation is incomprehensible, and there are so few places untouched by the earthquake.

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Our world has experienced so many catastrophic events in the last decade. The hundreds of thousands of lives lost is hard to accept. Yesterday, our church had a time of prayer and a collection for relief in Haiti. Both of my boys freely gave some of their money, and I couldn’t have been prouder of them. A new member of our church is from Haiti. Many, many people sat with him on the stage, praying with him for his country. His presence provided a visual reminder of how their tragedy affects all of us.

One of the images I saw on the news that affected me deeply was a group of Haitians praising God. They were singing songs and lifting their hands to God. They literally praised God amidst the destruction and devastation around them. It caused me to ask myself if I would be praising God if I’d lost family and my home. Is God bigger than my circumstances?

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How has the tragedy in Haiti affected you? If you’ve prayed, what have you prayed? Please post your comments at the end of this blog. Thank you.


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Dec 01 2009

We Made It!

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National Novel Writing Month is over! This year’s success was especially sweet as I not only finished my 50,000 words in 27 days, but my group of second graders blew me away with their stories and word count. Their imaginations and creativity came out as their incredible stories unfolded.

Twenty-three of the twenty-four students (and their teacher) participated in the Young Writers Program of National Novel Writing Month. Their goal was to write a 750 word novel. Seventy-five percent of them wrote 750 or more word novels. Twenty-one percent of them didn’t meet the 750 word goal, but they participated. Their collective word count was 21,328 words. That is amazing!!!! I could not be prouder!

Below is a picture of all of the novelists. I had them hold up their novels across their faces to protect their identities. The chart was their way to see their progress. Great motivator!

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This has been a memorable experience for me. One I will always cherish!


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Nov 10 2009

Passing It On

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Today marks day 10 of NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), and I crossed the 20K line! I’ve got 30,000 more words to go before the end of November. Last year, I made it to 50,000 words in 21 days. Don’t think I’ll beat my record, but I didn’t deal with a two-day nasty migraine during NaNo last year. I am LOVING my new characters! Something about watching the story line come together just really makes me happy.

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Palmer typing HIS NaNo novel

Something else that makes me really happy is watching Palmer work on his NaNo novel. BTW, his t-shirt says, “I Eat Novels For Breakfast!” Over the last few months I’ve been working with Palmer’s second grade class, teaching them about character development, plots and dialogue to get them ready to take on the NaNo challenge. The Young Writers Program branch of NaNo allows classrooms to sign up and participate. No, I know what you’re thinking . . . they do not have to write a 50,000 word novel. Ms. Fletcher and I discussed a goal that was difficult but reachable, deciding to put the goal at 750 words. Ms. Fletcher is even doing it, and she hates writing!

Palmer and I have spent some great time at REV Coffee (my favorite writing place!), and I can’t express how much it excites me to see him enjoying writing. Several of the students in his class have already met their goals of 750 words. I LOVE reading their novels. Kids do have some great imaginations!

The last few weeks in Palmer’s classroom have taught me the importance of passing on my love of writing. Many kids (and adults) cringe at the thought of having to write anything. The ability to write, and to write well, is a tool they can use the rest of their lives. These students have taken on the NaNo challenge in a big way, even stopping me in the hall to tell me about their novel. They are excited about writing!

Whatever it is that you are passionate about, I encourage you to pass it on!


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Oct 07 2009

Parenting At Its Worst

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Last night, my fine man and I attended the U2 concert at the Georgia Dome along with 100,000 other fans. U2 put on an incredible show, but it paled in comparison to the show in the seats directly in front of us.

We found our seats before the opening band started. A nice-looking family of four (Mom, Dad, and two teenage girls) were seated in front of us, eating their dinner. We briefly talked with them about the concerts we’d attended and those they’d attended. Having never seen U2 before, they were very excited to be there.

Appearances can be deceiving.

Finally, Dad gathered all their trash and took it to the trash cans. He returned several minutes later with three beers, handing one to his wife and one to his teenage daughter. All three of them quickly downed the alcohol. Dad got up again and purchased more beer. In my head I’m trying to convince myself that the teenage daughter is 21 or older, but I just couldn’t do it. The other daughter drank her Coke.

By the time the opening band finished, the teenage daughter had consumed three large cups of beer and took her mom’s cup of wine away from her. During the 30 minute intermission, the teenage girl passed out cold. Her mom nudged her dad, pointing to his drunk daughter. He shrugged his shoulders, stopped the beer concession guy, and bought another beer for himself. At the end of the concert, the parents roused their drunk daughter and took her home.

I do not know her age, so she could have been 21. But still . . . parents buying a large amount of alcohol for their young daughter, knowing she’s getting drunk? Something feels really wrong with that.


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Sep 17 2009

You Are the Change

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You must be the change you wish to see in the world. ~Mahatma Gandhi

There’s a new man in town. Handsome little cowboy

No, he’s not this little cowboy. He’s the new principal of our town’s high school. He didn’t arrive with pistols on both hips, but he might as well have. One of his hands is loaded with high expectations. The other hand is loaded with the endurance to stay the course. His goal is plain and simple - change. He’s got a BIG plan to change the climate of our town’s high school.

What is he up against? Fights. Apathy. Drugs. Gangs.

What is his weapon of choice? Small changes. And lots of them.

The small changes he instituted at the beginning of the school year (5 weeks ago) are already having a positive impact on the students and faculty. Amazing! How is that possible? Easy. He believed the changes would make for a better environment. He did the things he could do. He encouraged the faculty to join him in these changes. I believe he took Gandhi’s quote to heart. He’s making a difference because of the vision of change he has in his heart. I am inspired.


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Sep 03 2009

Back In the Saddle

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Hello all! I had planned to take a little time off from my writing this summer, but it turned into an extended vacation! My boys and I thoroughly enjoyed our eight day road trip to New York. Check out my facebook page to see the pictures. I must say I’ve really missed my interactions with you through my blog. I’m ready to get back at it!

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I love the story of Moses’ journey to the Promised Land. Receiving the Ten Commandments from God had to be one of the highlights of his 40 year journey. There are so many lessons to be learned from Moses and his million or so traveling companions. It’s easy for us to read the story and think: I would have done that differently; I would have had more faith; I would have been happy not to have to worry about making dinner for 40 years.

REALLY?

I often wonder if God were to take a group of Christians today on a journey like theirs, how would we fare?

* Would we wait patiently while God conversed with His chosen leader about the direction we needed to go?
Not likely. Most of us get impatient waiting in a long line at the grocery store.
* Would we have made an idol to worship while we waited?
Probably. We make idols every time we elevate our possessions above our relationship with God. Heck, we’ve even made idols of people who can sing well and have good stage presence.
* Even though God would take care of our every need, would we still complain and decide it was better the way it used to be?
Probably. Our society has taught us to rely on ourselves to make things happen. With this mentality, there’s no room for God.
* Would we complain about not getting to go shopping for new clothes?
Likely. That Macy’s sales flyer tempts us every time it comes in the mail.
* Even though God would supply our food and water, would we complain it wasn’t enough?
Definitely. Our society has brainwashed us into thinking we need to super size every meal to get enough.

Honestly, I don’t think we would act so differently than the Israelites acted. They complained and complained and complained. Their complaining stirred God’s anger. We do the same. And I would bet complaining still stirs His anger. I wonder if we really realize the impact our complaining has on our lives?

Reading through the book of Exodus again has given me a new resolve to pay attention to the amount of complaining that comes from my mouth. I am striving to do better in this area of my life.

Will you join me?


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May 20 2009

Follow the Signs, part 2

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Join me as I share another excerpt from my book Follow the Signs.

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YOUR CHOICE: YIELD TO GOD OR YIELD TO SIN

“Then there came a voice out of the cloud, saying, This is My Son, My Chosen One or My Beloved; listen to and yield to and obey Him!” Luke 9:36, Amplified Bible

A little over seventeen years ago I met a handsome young man on the back pew of a small country church in Carrollton, Georgia. My mom had gently coerced me to find a church home while I was away at college (even offering to visit with me), so she was there the day I met him. After overcoming much anxiety and my fear of rejection, I asked him out on a first date to a sorority social. It didn’t take many months of dating before I yielded my heart to Jeff. I saw his dedication and love for God and I wanted it, too. The majority of what I’d been taught about God was church doctrine. It seemed stiff and stale and I desired to know the God who was alive and active in His children’s lives. Over the course of several months, God became real to me and I yielded (submitted) my heart and life to Him.

Whether it was a few weeks ago or a few decades ago, most of us remember the day we submitted (or yielded) our lives to God. That one decision laid a solid foundation to our growth as a spiritual being.

If we’d continued in our life apart from God, we’d be like the man who built his house on the sand. Matthew 7: 24-27 (Amp) tells the story: “So everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts upon them [obeying them] will be like a sensible (prudent, practical, wise) man who built his house upon the rock. And the rain fell and the floods came and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of Mine and does not do them will be like a stupid (foolish) man who built his house upon the sand. And the rain fell and the floods came and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell–and great and complete was the fall of it.” A strong foundation, whether it is a building or a spiritual life, is imperative to the future of that structure.

What Does It Mean to Have a Strong Foundation in God?

There is no pat formula for building a strong foundation in God; rather, as you spend time with God, He will direct you to the disciplines or activities that will strengthen the foundation He laid when you gave your life to Him. God is all about relationships. He desires a strong loving relationship with you. Relationships require dedicated time, give-and-take, sharing of our deepest feelings and struggles, love with no strings attached, and forgiveness when we mess up. All of these characteristics of a loving relationship with our Savior equal a strong foundation in God.

The stronger the foundation you build with God, the more He will draw near to you when you experience trials or face struggles. Why? Because He knows you. He knows your heart is directed toward Him and He promises to be near to us and strengthen us in all circumstances.

What Does Yielding to God Look Like?

The day we walked down the aisle to align our hearts with God was but the first of many times we will yield to God. Is it just me or have you noticed that yielding to God is a daily decision? At least once every day, I’m faced with a decision to yield to the sin that is tempting me or yield to God’s way of living. Let me give you a couple of examples to demonstrate my point. On selected nights, my husband and I love tucking our boys in bed so we can have a couple of hours to ourselves to watch a movie. We excitedly start the movie we’ve chosen – usually full of action and suspense – only to be faced with fifty curse words and several scantily clad women and/ or men in the first ten minutes. As much as we both want to relax and watch this movie, we are faced with a dilemma: continue to watch the movie even though we don’t want to be exposed to such things or turn it off? I have to choose to yield to God or yield to sin. I’ll admit that sometimes it is a difficult choice. Most times though, we turn it off and my husband practices his guitar while I catch up on my reading.

Why is it the little things are more difficult to yield to God? Perhaps we believe no one is looking so there’s no one to be accountable to. Or we might think it won’t hurt to do it just this once. But look at God’s admonition in Matthew 6: 22-23 (Amp): “The eye is the lamp of the body. So if your eye is sound, your entire body will be full of light. But if your eye is unsound, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the very light in you [your conscience] is darkened, how dense is that darkness!” To watch a questionable movie is a little thing, but if we allow our eyes and ears to take in the inappropriate language and the exposed bodies then it becomes a part of us. It wouldn’t take too many compromises of the little things to equal a large amount of darkness inside of us.

What Are the Consequences of Yielding to Sin?

Yielding to sin sends a clear message to God that you choose the way of sin over His Way. Look at the stiff warning in Leviticus 26: 18-20 (Amp): “And if in spite of all this you still will not listen and be obedient to Me, then I will chastise and discipline you seven times more for your sins. And I will break and humble your pride in your power, and I will make your heavens as iron [yielding no answer, no blessing, no rain] and your earth [as sterile] as brass. And your strength shall be spent in vain, for your land shall not yield its increase, neither shall the trees of the land yield their fruit.”

Moses was teaching the Israelites God’s instructions for living and these verses were a warning to what would happen if they chose not to listen to Him. Not listening. Isn’t that how the domino-like reaction starts? We know what His Word says about a certain temptation; yet, we stubbornly don’t listen and yield to the temptation anyway. The next time the temptation arises, it’s easier to yield to it. And the dominoes start falling. If we keep adding to the pattern of yielding to sin, He promises that the heavens will yield no answers, no blessings and no rain. Lastly, even though most of us are not farmers, relying on our crops for income, these verses promise that our labors (job, child rearing and service to others) will not produce the results we desire if we chose to yield to sin.

If our foundation in God is strong, we have His love, His power, and His strength to help us fight any temptation Satan puts in our path. But, we have to choose to yield to God instead of Satan. He won’t do it for us. And if our foundation is shaky, the temptations we face will be harder to resist. We will be much more likely to yield to the temptations Satan offers instead of yielding to God’s way of living. Remember the tree planted by the water in Psalm 1. Each time we choose to yield to God instead of yielding to sin the roots in our foundation are growing stronger and more resilient.


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Apr 22 2009

Follow the Signs

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Several years ago I had an Oprah-like Ah ha moment. I doubt she coined the phrase “This I know for sure”, but it works well with my Ah-ha moment. Please allow me to explain.

On a drive to my in-law’s home, I began thinking about the messages on the road signs we passed. Weird I know, but for some reason they resonated with me. It occurred to me that many of the road signs boasted themes that God asks us to incorporate into our lives: stop, yield, do not enter, to name a few.

Once home, I dove into my Bible to see if there indeed were connections between road signs and God’s Word. Once I found one road sign - Scripture connection, I couldn’t stop. Over the course of the last two years, I’ve found over 200 verses that use road sign language. In fact, the idea intrigued me so much I wrote a nonfiction book titled Follow the Signs.

I’d like to share excerpts from my book during the next few blogs. I hope you’ll join me. Feel free to comment.

The following is from the section titled Trusting God. It is called “One Way to Live.” dscn0420

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6, NIV

* Scripture does not specifically say ‘one way’. For the purposes of this work, ‘the way’ is equivalent to ‘one way.’

Before we knew God’s plans for our lives, we were way-ward (not knowing the way). Most of us sought direction for our lives, but from all the wrong places. Some of us even were brought up in Christian homes, knowing the way, but choosing not to follow it. Somewhere along your journey through life, you realized God’s Way made sense and the world’s ways left little to be desired.

Will that be the only time you will be asked to choose God’s Way over the world’s ways? Not likely. Let’s look at how the ways of the world continue to tempt us to travel in the opposite direction of God.

The Way of the World

Bombarded by endless advertising campaigns and other people’s opinions, we daily face a crossroads sign. The signs pointing in every direction force you to make countless decisions – some trivial and some eternal. Keep in mind, the well-thought out messages on the crossroads signs are rarely boring and rarely unattractive. Each of the emotionally-driven, brightly-colored messages encourages you to follow their way.

They offer enticing promises: “Gain happiness this way! This way to fame and fortune! Go this way for a better body! This way to a better job, husband, house . . .” Some people sadly discover following the world’s ways result in far greater negative outcomes than they would have ever imagined. The outcomes of following the world’s ways include ruin, decay, and destruction.

Watch the news one night and you’ll quickly see the results of choosing the world’s ways: Families broken by divorce experience further pain when one of the disgruntled spouses murders their ex-spouse. And sadly, the violence often times occurs in front of their children. Drug busts are shown nightly and are a result of greed for “big money” and someone’s addiction. Gangs participate in drive-by shootings, killing innocent children and by-standers. A seemingly upstanding man gets overwhelmed by his large debt (possibly from gambling or buying too many things on credit) and robs a bank. These individuals have bought into Satan’s lie – the one that says his way will bring happiness, money, intimate relationships and relief from pain. The list of his lies is innumerable (John 8:44).

After following the world’s ways and experiencing the unfavorable outcomes, those frustrated and broken people ask, “Isn’t there a better way?” Jesus answers their question with a resounding “Yes!” Jesus boldly proclaims, “I am the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6). Jesus shows us a radically different way to live.

The Way in God’s Word

The Old Testament is replete with examples of God offering to teach people the way. Adam and Eve were given explicit instructions about the way they were allowed to eat from any tree in the garden, but not from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. God knew eating from this tree would give them knowledge of the way of the world. Satan, disguised as a snake, enticed them to follow the way he offered. Eve, and then Adam bought the lie and disobeyed God’s instructions. As we know, they reaped the ultimate consequence – removal from the Garden of Eden (and a few other unpleasant consequences).

In the New Testament, the book of John immediately introduces its readers to the way: “There once was a man, his name John, sent by God to point out the way to the Life-Light. He came to show everyone where to look, who to believe in. John was not himself the Light; he was there to show the way to the Light” (John 1:6, the Message). At just the right time, Jesus assumes his role of Messiah and teaches the way to salvation: through the forgiveness of sins.

He offers the same spiritual healing to each one of us: “God’s readiness to give and forgive is now public. Salvation’s available for everyone! We’re being shown how to turn our backs on a godless, indulgent life, and how to take on a God-filled, God-honoring life. This new life is starting right now, and is whetting our appetites for the glorious day when our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, appears. He offered himself as a sacrifice to free us from a dark, rebellious life into this good, pure life, making us a people he can be proud of, energetic in goodness” (Titus 2:11, the Message).

Notice that we are to “turn our backs on a godless, indulgent life.” He means for us to actively turn away from the ways of the world by repenting of our sins and receiving His forgiveness. In this verse, He also calls us to “take on a God-filled, God-honoring life.” If we want to follow the way of Christ, we must actively take on filling ourselves with God and honoring Him daily with our lives.

“This I know for sure”: God offers us the ultimate way to live. He doesn’t force it on us. We must choose to accept it. I find God’s way full of freedom and life. Each time I see a “ONE WAY” sign I think of how following God’s Way has enriched my life in many many ways.


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Mar 25 2009

No God in School Video

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No God in School Click here and you will be taken to the youtube video.

About a week ago I saw this video posted on facebook. It really made me think. In fact, I’ve thought about it many times since then. I could tell you each of the different emotions I’ve felt or the thoughts I’ve had or even the actions that I felt compelled to take, but I’m choosing not to. Why? Because I want to hear your impressions. This is the kind of video that really has the potential to wake up those who profess to believe in God. Me included.

After viewing it, please click on ‘comment’ and share with me your thoughts and feelings. Thanks!


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